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A: Well that would be really difficult to find out.... you see love can't be measured or quantified, but it is definitely seen and felt. I think in every relationship, not just love there are some people who are givers and the others are takers and then these roles are exchanged according to the situation and the needs. With that said.... in love and especially marriage you will always find one person who is used to giving more than the other partner and sometimes the spouse (be it man or woman) takes this "giving" for granted and then it falls under the norm ... "You are supposed to do that" and they might go a step further to take advantage of this action. This is when the gap starts and problems or ill feelings might fall. If both spouses consider and keep in mind that nothing other than LOVE compels them in this relation to act in a certain manner, their relationship will be crisis for sure. Cos the giver would eventually feel used and abused and taken for granted and THAT def. hurts any strong or even solid love relation. Bottom line even in love and marriage its a GIVE AND TAKE relationship and both spouses should give and continue giving willingly for it to work out and flourish. That's just my opionion.