Q: Talking to a person of the opposite sex online and rarely on the phone while knowing that this person has feelings for you and often flirts or passes sexy comments to you while your spouse asked you not to speak to this person again.. would that be cheating? You say you just do it for the fun of it and to kill time plus you consider this person a good friend.. is that an enough excuse? Is that normal or cheating?

A: It is not very honest to say the least