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A: You tell her God Bless you both, I wish you sincerely the very best in your life....Short and sweet to ensure you keep your dignity at all times and wont look back and ponder the words in said in any form of regret. then cut all contact and any way of knowing each others news If you love someone its not healthy that you know the news of that person when they are with someone else. It would only hurt more. When I got married I broke the hearts of two others, although I didn't mean it because I believe if we break a heart its like to break a mosque, One of the guys acted in the horrible and childish way and the other one told me God bless you both and the very best. I will always respect the guy that told me that, even though I knew his heart was broken and he would have married me in a heart beat. Ive seen the people that try to remain friends in such circumstances, I sat with my broken hearted friends watching news feeds of walls when two of their mutual friends have got together or simply watching them fall in love with another person. I'm so sorry that your heart is hurting but I know that what god plans for us in marriage is really worth the wait and its only then that we find out all the reasons why we didn't marry the others that loved us or us that loved them.