Q: I had a date with one and he's been calling me and texting me so much that I am confused. Is that regular in your country? I am half of mind to sleep with him, maybe that will calm him down! I am asking because he is not the only lebanese I know that behaves like that, so I thought it was maybe something related to culture rather than the individual. Geez, I am used to being nice to people! He is an athist, but I think his family is Muslim. He is well traveled, so I assumed he saw more of the "other side" of the world. I am Eastern European by the way.
A: Lebanese dudes are just that dudes. As all males and females are prompted by sexual instinct, likewise, that is his intention. However, in his country, he would not more than glance at a virtuous girl of his kind as it is unacceptable to "openly" pursue women. No this is not regular. He's obsessive. As you are on the verge of accepting his invitation, Lebanese dudes will ply it on thick. They are usually very gentlemanly, flowers, gifts, they are charming and can be extremely good-looking, unfortunately in my opinion, few can be dubbed "a man". They put on a fine show but are of little substance within and if there is any, it's all messed up, having been raised in wartime. They tend to be more cowardly than other Arab nationalities, gold-diggers, show-offs, opportunists. You've got a stalker here exploiting a smile you gave him. See, girls here are told "not to show your teeth to men" as that implies a smile. Just giving a smile to a man is sign enough that you are a willing participant in this thing called male and female. As a dude, he's as natural as any dude. A a Lebanese, he's more Arab. Now was that a Christian or Muslim? Could make a difference. What's his religion? Christian males and females mix whereas with Muslim they don't thus ANY smiling female, showing willingness is worth mixing with. Do you what to be in the mix? Regards