Q: There are things I like and would like to do, but there are always some obstacles which prevent me from doing these, so I spend my time doing something else. Am I honest with myself? What does it mean to be ruthlessly honest with yourself?

A: Well Zim this question has certainly made myself think. As I am quite the same. There are plenty of things I've love to do but never get round to doing them. Most of it is to either go travelling/ visit family or get round to getting my passport etc. Everyday things just pile up on me and it becomes to much so I just through my plans out the window! Which I think is wrong and I am not for filling my dreams/ what my soul yearns for. Which in contrast is not being true to myself. I think the day I take the bull by the horns is the day I become true with myself and I think that goes for anybody in a position like mine.