Q: I need urgent help from all the South Africans on here. I have been offered a good job at UNISA in Pretoria just today. I've been in Korea for 7 years now and want to leave at the end of my contract, so I can start over in South Africa. Only problem now is that the school will not let me leave in such short notice. Also. I have some bad experiences in Pretoria. Like getting my freekin' ankle cut off from some a$$ that robbed me. I NEED HELP IN MAKING A DECISION. Do I screw the school here in Korea or do I finish honorably and take my chances back in South Africa with no job? Well, not NO JOB, but no luxury! Also, I may be given some kind of head position at my school next year. I have been there 4 years and know more than my supervisor! I mean on getting the job done. I'm really passionate about teaching here and this is killing me inside. Question should read: How do I choose between South Africa (family) and Korea (comfortable living conditions)?

A: Hi Porgie ! Well ,one cannot always make a decision with your head ,sometimes you've got to listen to your heart as well ! The best advise I can give you is to ask the Big Man above to help you make the right decision . It has always worked for me . Sterkte boeta !