Q: busy, what toys should I bring to the cottage. and what is a great toy to bring to a restaurant, to keep her occupied
A: Here are some tips: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/142211/how_to_have_a_stress_free_lunch_in.html Take a look at the space coaster in this link: It has suction pads to keep it on the table, and there are no small bits that can fall down and get lost. It looks like something that one could purchase specifically to use for restaurants visits, and not for everyday use (to prevent the child becoming bored with the toy) http://www.wholesomebabyfood.com/diningoutwithbaby.htm